Stroke Awareness

StrokeRecognizing a Stroke

Time = brain cells!

Some readers may know I volunteer as a Critical Care EMT with my local fire department and local first aid squad.  In my legal practice I deal with Elders and their families and provide legal help for “The Third Age” (the age after middle age!) and come in contact with clients and families dealing with the medical and legal issues of later life.

A recent ambulance call brought to mind the urgency and importance of recognizing signs of stroke and getting immediate medical care. At about   4 p.m. my ambulance crew and I were called to the home of an 88 year old man whose son reported his father was unable to speak clearly and remember words (“aphasia”).

The son reported the speech problems began after breakfast, at about 9 a.m. The problem seemed to resolve itself only to return at about 3:30 p.m., thus the 911 call and our response.  This gentleman was conscious, alert, dressed and sitting at his kitchen table.  Based on the son’s description of symptoms, we did a quick stroke assessment: grip, smile, tongue control, facial droop, muscle control.  All were normal but he could not retrieve words. It was apparent that he knew what he wanted to say but he did not have the words to do so. Slurred or inappropriate speech can be a sign of stroke so we immediately transported this patient to the local hospital ER for treatment.

As usual, we gave the ER a “heads-up” that we were transporting a potential stroke victim. On arrival the ER staff was prepared to do an immediate CT scan to diagnose the problem.  However, given the time elapsed from first symptoms (9 a.m.) to ER arrival (4 p.m.), neither the CT scan nor the use of the “clot buster” drug TPA was indicated.

The key is time. Had this patient been transported at 9 a.m., a CT scan may have indicated that TPA would be appropriate and possibly helpful.

Please, if you have a parent, child, friend or co-worker who exhibits signs of stroke, do not delay, call 911 immediately. Ignore Mom’s suggestion that she just needs a rest or Uncle Harry’s attribution of his symptoms to “something he ate”.

A stroke does not “get better” with the passage of time; rest, a cold compress or chicken soup will not help a stroke. Brain cells damaged by the deprivation of oxygen cannot regenerate.

A stroke victim needs immediate medical treatment, usually at the nearest ER.

For help in recognizing stroke please go to: Signs and symptoms of stroke.

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Too much of a Good Thing –

Duplicate Original Wills: the Danger Zone

Our New York Court of Appeals (the State’s highest Court) recently ruled on an appeal by the children of the Decedent sending the matter back to the Surrogate’s Court for a determination if a 1996 pre-divorce Will can transfer the family home, that had been in the family “for generations”, out of the blood line to the father of the ex-husband. (In the Matter of the ESTATE OF Robyn R. LEWIS, Deceased, June 4, 2015.)

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The Graduate?

With apologies to Mr. Robinson, it’s more than the plastic!

With your new grad, consider new legal requirements – they are now adults?

Parents and guardians often forget, or fail to consider, that once the proud graduate turns 18 s/he is now, in the eyes of the law, and the doctor, and the hospital and the school an adult.  Mom, Dad and Aunt Ethel have no right to see, hear or obtain the graduate’s personal information without their consent.

Off to College – you get to pay but not to see.

Schools and colleges, hospitals and doctors are restricted, by some very strict laws, from exposing and discussing the personal and private information of their students/patients.  So, grades, attendance, disciplinary and medical records are all out of bounds to mom and dad without the consent of the graduate.

Many parents are shocked and surprised when, in their usual parental role, they expect to manage the graduate’s affairs, they are met with a blank stare, or silence, following a query to the bursar, registrar or dean of discipline. And, in an emergency, say injury or an accident or stranding while a student abroad, parents and guardians should be prepared and able to gain access to protected information to help. Continue reading

Mother Loved Me Best! – It’s all about the money.

Court slams adult children jockeying for mom’s cash.

A refrain often heard in Article 81 Guardianship proceedings is : “I only want what’s best for ” Mom, Dad or Aunt Ethel! Sadly, too often that oft repeated claim is a smokescreen hiding the true intent of the speaker: to hold on to the money!

A recent case illustrates how sibling rivalry, avarice and perhaps a lifetime of unreconciled mommy issues can impact, on a most profound level, the well being of and care for a frail and dependent Senior.

The Bronx County Supreme Court (the Court of general trial jurisdiction in New York) essentially kicked the son and daughter of a mother found to be an Incapacitated Person to the curb based on their egregious manipulation of their mother and her assets in competition with each other for their own benefit. (See, In the Matter of the Application of CARYL S.S., Petitioner, For The Appointment of A Guardian For the Person and/or Property of Valerie L.S., An Alleged Incapacitated Person, Respondent.
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No Will – There IS a Way!




Clients or family members often express concern, after the passing of a loved one, that they cannot locate Mom’s or Dad’s Will or that there is no Will. Often, a bank or other institution requires court documents to process the assets or claims of the decedent. We refer to a person who dies without a Will as having died “intestate”.

Intestacy – The Law of Descent and Distribution

Under these circumstances the New York Law of Intestacy (or Descent and Distribution) provides for a process known as Administration and the appointment of an Administrator to manage the estate and affairs of the decedent and to distribute the property as provided in the Law of Descent and Distribution – Intestacy.

The Administrator is the fiduciary of the decedent’s estate, just as an Executor is, in the case where a decedent left a Will.

As in a probate proceeding, the statute requires that all persons who would be entitled to take the property of the decedent pursuant to the law of intestacy (the “distributees”) be served with a citation and notice of the Administration Proceeding. In this way, all parties have the opportunity to express an opinion as to who will be appointed the Administrator or to object to the appointment of a particular person who may be petitioning for Letters of Administration.

The Petition is filed by an interested party asking for Letters of Administration to be issued to a designated person. Usually the Petitioner is asking for letters to be issued to them. Just as in the probate process, it is important to locate all distributees so that the court has complete jurisdiction and can issue a decree that will bind all parties. If distributees are missing, unknown or under a disability (including age or mental disease or defect) the court will require diligent efforts to find the missing distributes and will appoint a Guardian ad litem to protect the interests of the person who is missing or under a disability.

Assuming, however, that all distributees are known and none are under a disability, and that there is no objection from any distributee, the court will appoint an Administrator of the estate who will be charged with marshaling the decedent’s assets, paying administration expenses, funeral expenses, taxes and debts and to distribute the remaining assets among the distributees as provided in the statute. Among the duties of the Administrator, would be to file federal or New York State income tax returns for the decedent and, if necessary, the estate.

If the estate is of a size to be subject to federal or New York State estate taxes, the administrator is required to file the appropriate returns. Final distribution may be delayed until the taxing authorities have approved the estate tax filings.

The Black Sheep

The statute directs the distribution of the net assets of the estate to the spouse and children, in prescribed portions, or to the children or more remote descendents if there are no spouse or children. This distribution scheme can be a cause for concern and even conflict among family members.

The spouse may have been the intended recipient of all of the assets but the spouse may have to share the estate with minor children. Or, a decedent may not have wanted to distribute assets to a particular family member or group of family members.

For example, if the decedent were estranged from his son and had no contact with or disharmonious relations with the son and his family, the decedent could have explicitly excluded them from any portion of the estate in a properly drafted will. However, in intestacy, the disfavored son will be included as an equal  beneficiary with his presumably favored siblings.

Similarly a decedent may have wanted to preclude the appointment of a particular person or group of persons as executor of his or her estate. In intestacy distributees equally positioned generally have an equal right to be named Administrator of the decedent’s estate; each of the decedent’s children, for example, would have an equal claim to be Administrator, assuming the decedent’s spouse had predeceased.

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Managed Long Term Care – Dual Eligible Medicaid Home Care



Homecare managed by the private sector

Recent changes to the Medicaid Home Care program (driven by a hoped for cost saving) requires all “dual eligible” applicants (receiving Medicare and Medicaid) and others upon approval for home care services to select and enroll in a Managed Long Term Care Plan (“MLTC”) run by a number of approved providers.  The Medicaid program pays the provider a fixed fee per enrolee (“capitation”) and the MLTC determines the level and kind of services the enrolee requires.

Those who where were receiving Medicaid home care before MLTC became mandatory will continue to receive the same kind and level of services without change for at least 60 days.  New enrolees, however may find that the kind and level of services are limited because of the strong incentive of the plan to minimize expenses and maximize profit.

More importantly for all, however, the first level of appeal from the services decision is to the plan itself (the wolf guarding the hen house?); after the internal appeals are exhausted an appeal (a “fair hearing”) to the state Department of Health is possible.  In any event, the MLTC approach bodes ill for seniors and their families; look out for extended struggles to obtain the services needed.

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